New r'ship & L word
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| Mon, 08-15-2005 - 1:01pm |
I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks and he is totally awesome. I think we're both falling pretty hard. We see eachother every day and it's been wonderful. No sex yet, we're taking that part slow, I know we both want to wait because we want it to be special.
Anyway, we went out with our friends fri night we both had a lot to drink. After bar closed we got back to his place and I stayed over. We messed around a little and then layed there talking. And he said, "I love you to death, you are the most wonderful person I've ever met." I didn't know quite how to take that because we were both drunk. So I just hugged him and told him that I couldn't be happier. And then we went to sleep.
So should I just not worry about it and kinda pretend he didn't say it? I have no idea if he remembers saying it or not. And I don't want to embarrass him by bringing it up.

Yeah, I would just leave that alone...I don't think the way he phrased it is quite saying "I love you" in any event (and thank goodness for that...that would freak me out after only a couple weeks of dating for sure!).
Sheri
It still freaks me out after two months. But you know what, sometimes it's real, even if it's fast. That's what I'm living right now.
Just keep quiet about it - I do think that sometimes people's feelings come out when they're drunk, but I wouldn't bring it up yet. Just see how things go. I really like to make a point of NOT saying "I love you" first, just so I know he isn't saying it only because I said it first.
Hi Kwhere,
A couple of weeks and the guy is exclaiming "i love you" after being drunk and shooting his load on you?
don't believe it.
Give this a lot of time to evolve. You may find that lust isn't love.
Elyse
Yeah, actually she said they have not had sex.
Don't be so negative. Sometimes good things really do happen to good people.
Thanks for clarifying to the other poster that we have not had sex. Some people are very negative. I can tell you right now, this guy is different. I know this is going to be the best r'ship I've ever had. So I'm not going to read too much into what he said, people say things without thinking when they've had a few drinks. But I know he likes me and cares about me because it shows every day when he calls me and wants to see me.
Hugs,
Morgan