New Year's Eve
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New Year's Eve
| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 4:40pm |
Need to know whether I have a right to be hurt: My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. It will be our first holiday season together. He is spending Christmas with my family. He just informed me he is going home to his family's (two states away) for New Years Eve. No invitation for me to go with him. I have met his family and they have often invited me to come visit. However, he seems to be planning just to go home and spend the holiday with them, and not with me. Should I be hurt that he didn't even invite me to come? He doesn't seem to even care that we're not spending it together. I don't know what to think.
Thanks,
K

Something like this would NOT bother me as I don't get wrapped up with having to spend holidays with a SO and NYE isn't that important to me either. I'm not one to invite my bf to family gatherings unless I know I'm going to marry them, I'm 31 years old and they knew my exhusband that was it, other than that I don't bring boyfriends around to family functions.
I would just say to him that it hurt your feelings that he didn't invite you and see what his response is.
Sounds like you don't know either way. Maybe he just assumed that you would come wiht? Either way, you need to talk to him about it, cause communication should always be #1 in a relationship!