Newly single - bad boys versus good guys
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Newly single - bad boys versus good guys
| Tue, 08-16-2005 - 7:29am |
I'm a newly single girl, just out of a 4 year relationship.
I have just found out that two of my male friends are attracted to me. One is very sweet, generous, kind and is falling quite deeply for me. However, I'm not sure that I'm ready to get involved in another relationship yet and his keenness is making me feel a little claustrophobic.
The other is more of a 'bad boy' and doesn't want a relationship, just a fling. I'm very attracted by his naughty ways, but don't want to end up getting hurt.
Why do bad boys appeal more than good guys?!!

yeah, it is hard to keep it casual I think, which is mostly the problem... can I have a fling with a bad boy and have that excitement without falling too hard?
and it's doubly hard to not date anyone at all, as it's such fun being free and single for the first time in 4 years!! It's like all of a sudden my blinkers are off and there are men EVERYWHERE!!
I know what my gut feeling is - to go and have fun with the bad boy and then when I'm ready for a relationship, look for a good guy :o) But that doesn't sound very sensible or logical, and one of us might get hurt...