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| Mon, 08-28-2006 - 11:44am |
I have been a friendly aquaintance to this guy who goes to college with me for about 6 months. We have recently (for about 6 weeks) been chatting on the internet. We see each other at parties a lot, and the last big party at school he came alone to see me. We danced and chatted and then went back to his place and made out. It was wonderful! I made the mistake of sleeping there (just sleeping, no sex), but in the morning we cuddled and made out again. He did/said things that made me believe he was interested in more than just a make-out session (like dating or a relationship). Well, since then, we've chatted on AIM, but when I see him during the day it is a little awkward- we don't know what to say. I am crazy about this guy and I want to hang out or ask him out or something, but I'm worried he's not interested or he thinks I'm a whore. I regret staying over, even though it was super fun. Should I ask him out? If so, to what? We are both active and outdoorsy, and I think something fun would be the best, not just a dinner. But I really have no idea! I've thought about it so much I don't know what to think.

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You seem confused, you thought the night you spent with this guy was wonderful, but you regret staying over. You also are afraid this guy thinks that you are a whore.
You need to get your head on straight, you have to own up to your actions. You did what you did, there is nothing of which to be ashamed.
Most men know how to ask a woman out, yet this guy hasn't taken the initiative. Do YOU want to have to be in the position where you are going to do the asking? Because this guy, for whatever reason, can't seem to do it.
So make your decision about what you want to do and quit worrying about what happened in the past. Ask him to take a walk, go bowling, play frisbee or anything you want. If he hems and haws, then I'd move on.