NO GIFT

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Registered: 06-14-2005
NO GIFT
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Wed, 02-15-2006 - 12:28pm

SO, I didn't receive anything for V-day. My bf of 6 mths said that he thought that I didn't care about it, so he didn't get/do anything for me. He went on to say that he didn't get his mother anything and that he's never celebrated V-day before.

Question - Does no gift mean that he's not that into me?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: ravishingbeauty
Wed, 02-15-2006 - 12:31pm
No it doesnt. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he has never got me anything. Neither one of us makes a big deal of the day. However, he did wish me a happy valentine's day, which is a nice gesture. I do not expect anything at all and it doesn't mean he isn't into me. Of course, it depends on the person. If your guy thought that it was an important day, and got you nothing, then I would be concerned. Just everyone's preference.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: ravishingbeauty
Wed, 02-15-2006 - 3:14pm
Lots of guys are not that into V Day. And that's wht he specifically told you. How does he treat you otherwise?
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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: ravishingbeauty
Wed, 02-15-2006 - 3:32pm
No, it means that he is just not into a stupid holiday manufactured by greeting card and chocolate companies. As long as he treats you well otherwise and seems into you every other day of the year, then the fact that he didn't get you a gift on this sappy holiday means very little. If you are happy with him and your relationship in all other respects, why care whether or not he got you something for Valentines Day?

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