No goodnight kiss?
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No goodnight kiss?
| Sat, 09-25-2004 - 9:19am |
Here's the setup: meet this guy at the gym, we seemed to have a lot in common, talked for a while, and exchange phone numbers. I didn't hear from him right away but saw him again in a few days and talked more, about things we liked, etc. He says he'll call Sunday night and doesn't, so I call Monday and he says he got in too late Sunday night to call. Talk on the phone a few times after that (I never called him after that; he always called me) and plan a date on Friday night. He picks me up and right away tells me I look great. We go out to a little restaurant and have a great evening, getting along really well. He takes me home around 10:30 and gives me a goodnight kiss on the cheek. Calls me a few days later, saw him again at the gym, and we plan a second date next Friday at the movies. He picks me up before the movie, this time not saying anything about how I look (not as dressed up this time but still put together!) but we go out and have a great time, and he takes me home again by 10:30. This time, he leaned in for what I thought was a kiss but ended up in an awkward hug, followed by him saying "call me tomorrow." What's up with this guy? Is he shy or not interested? Should I call? I like the guy and had a good time, and it seemed like he did too. Please help!
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| Sun, 09-26-2004 - 10:45am |
Ask him what's wrong! lol If you really want a kiss and aren't getting it, ask why he isn't kissing you. On the other hand, there is a more conservative approach, NOT to care. It's just a kiss. If he wants to kiss you, he will. If he doesn't kiss you, he doesn't really want to. There is nothing to think about. lol Relax and have fun. And, if you want kisses, find another guy who is more willing! lol
| Sun, 09-26-2004 - 7:05pm |
I would say he is interested. Why else would he plan dates with you? I'd say the guy could just be shy. Are you giving him an encouraging vibe? Personally, I won't go in for a first kiss without being 90% sure in my mind that I'm not going to get rejected.
| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 8:46pm |
I'm not sure what's going on now... I've seen him a few times at the gym and we've chatted like nothing's wrong, and yesterday he says "it was good to see you... are you going to be working out tomorrow?" So I think, great! Then today at the gym, we chat a little bit, and he leaves with just a "see you later"... I just don't get it. I don't want to scare him off and ask him out, but I guess if he doesn't call in the next few days or so he's just not interested?
