No idea what to think about this guy
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No idea what to think about this guy
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 12:33pm |
Ok here's the situation. While out with one of my girlfriends I met this guy. She already knew him through work and introduced us. We spent several hours together as a group, me, him, my girl, his boy. We flirted mercilessly back and forth. I'm not shy, so I made it very clear I was interested. I thought he was reciprocating. At the end of the night we walked together to the parking lot, where we kissed several times. We had already exchanged numbers. He asked me about plans for upcoming weekend and we tentatively scheduled not so accidental meetings on 2 nights and planned to cement those later in the week. I called him on Weds. to see what was up. He acted thrilled to talk to me and continued the flirtiness. We both had plans with friends on Friday, so he said to call him on Friday to see if either of our plans had fallen through. They hadn't, so he said he was going to call me that night so that we could engineer an accidental meeting. Well, I'm a dufus so I dropped my cell phone in my drink that night and shorted it out He called, but I didn't get it until the next day when my phone dried out. After getting the message the next day I called him to explain what happened the night before. We laughed about it and agreed to keep the plans we had to run into each other on Sunday. He was going out of town overnight with his buddies on Sat. Well, Sunday comes and goes with no call or nothing. Like a nerd, I called him on Monday. They had gotten stuck out of town, and out of cell range until the wee hours Sunday night/Monday morning he said. He's off this week from work and was trying to wrap stuff up there so he could go. He double checked what number I was at and even made me give it to him again so that he could call me back in five minutes. I haven't heard from him since. While obsessing about this I realized that other than the night my phone went swimming, he hasn't actually called me at all. I have called him. Everytime I have talked to him he has seemed so happy to talk to me and has made jokes about the universe conspiring to keep us apart. He keeps telling me to call him. I joked that I felt like a stalker because I'm always calling him and he said for me to call him whenever I wanted. Yet I haven't heard from him. Thanks to the wet phone thing, I don't have his cell number anymore -- just his work number. So I couldn't call him this week if I wanted to. I'm thinking that may be a good thing. I guess what I don't get is that HE kissed me, keeps flirting with me, and keeps telling me either to call him or that he's gonna call me, but never actually calls. "I'll call you back in 5 minutes," was on Monday and this is Thursday -- possibly the longest five minutes ever. So what's going on? Is he just not that into me? That's fine if it is, just quit yanking my chain, so to speak. HELP!!!!

I personally don't like games, so if I call and they don't call me, I give up and move on. If they're really interested in you they will make the effort.
I agree with what the others have advised you.
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