no phone call

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2004
no phone call
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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 9:10pm
I was at a party where my friend introduced me to a reallly gorgeous friend of his. There was a lot of sexual attraction between the two of us and we ended up having sex. I didn't think it meant anything but at the end of the night he wanted my phone #. And then he never called. At first I was hurt because his inquiry brought me to consider whether this one-time sex would blossom into a relationship even a purely sexual one, but now i'm over it. Still i wonder why he never called, any suggestions??
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
In reply to: dressage22
Sun, 11-07-2004 - 9:51pm
If he didn't call, I don't think he's that interested... Guys are action-oriented usually so if he doesn't pursue, I wouldn't waste my time with it. Stick with your first instinct--it didn't mean anything. I hope this helps.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2003
In reply to: dressage22
Sun, 11-07-2004 - 10:00pm
Know know - the previous response is probably correct... the guy might have gotten your phone number to avoid a weird situation when you two parted ways for the evening/day. I had the same thing happen to me one night at a bar - I spent the whole night talking and dancing with this guy - at the end of the night he asked me for my number and never called =( Men are weird - they'll do anything to avoid their feeling uncomfortable.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
In reply to: dressage22
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 4:24pm
He'll probably call -at his convenience- to have some more of the same. His actions say he's not looking to establish a relationship, he's just looking for sex. He has your number so when he's in the area and ready he'll reach for his note book and will dial your number.