No sex drive...
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No sex drive...
| Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:41pm |
Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2yrs, and everything is going great. Well, except for my boyfriend's sex drive or should I say lack of. He tells me he has "issues" with sex, being brought up in a very christian family. He is 28 yrs old and I am 22. I am extremely happy with him except for this. I feel like I am being selfish for wanting to have sex, but I have to be honest with myself. Also, the lack of sex makes me feel extremely insecure and doubt his love for me. Please help! This is causing a huge problem and I don't know what to do...

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I know the feelings you're going through. My ex-husband had these same issues and even though the issues appeared before the marriage, I got married thinking they could be worked on. However, they can't be... sex is an important part of a relationship to me and if it's a problem in the beginning, it may be a problem later. Personally, I would not be with someone who I did not click on that level also but...
again, we need more info before we can answer properly.