No talking route

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Registered: 01-29-2004
No talking route
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Fri, 08-06-2004 - 7:03pm
Can someone please explain to me “Why Men think the no talking route is the way to best way to handle things?”

Our last day together was great; full of kiss’s and smiles. Then two days later he calls and breaks my heart. Then to pour salt into wound he refuses to talk to me, he won’t take my calls or answer my text messages.

I had a few things at his apartment, I offered to just drive by and he could come down to give them my things. But he wouldn’t even let me come by and pick them up; he gave them to mutual friend to give to me.



How can someone I thought of my friend treat me this way?

We had such great times & we NEVER really fought

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Registered: 08-06-2004
Fri, 08-06-2004 - 11:18pm
You did not say how long you were dating. But to me it sounds like the less contact with you the easier it is to shut you out and move on. Out of sight out of mind. My ex would do the same thing to me every time we got into a fight he would not anwser my calls or pretend he was not home. Very frustrating.


Edited 8/6/2004 11:19 pm ET ET by ibuster44
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 08-07-2004 - 12:14pm
I really wish women would make up their minds: do they want an ex hanging about with mixed messages, or do they want the r'ship to be put to rest so they can go on with their lives?

He is doing the right thing and good for him!