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Is this normal?
| Tue, 08-01-2006 - 10:10am |
Hi everyone, I posted on here a while ago. I have received great advice.- My Thanks to all.
Here is my situation- i knew this guy for awhile before we started dating. he works in a cafe that i go to and we have been friendly for several months. We recently started dating a little over a month ago. He seems crazy about me. We only see each other basically on the weekends because of both our work schedules. Sometimes during the week after i finish my job, I see him for about half an hour. We talk everyday and he wants me to stay at his apartment for a few days with him, but i still live at home(I am 26)and my mom is a bit protective. he has even mentioned to me i could bring some of my stuff and leave it at his apartment. He wants sex every weekend. So it's basically once a week, if any. So there are times we have sex, then go out to eat, do something fun-, take walks whatever. Sometimes no sex, we go out, have fun. Its just really great with him no matter what we do. But it's as if we are married.- If I need him, he's there- when we go out he pays for everything. He has told me- Don't ever worry about paying unless he asks me- he has even told me he doesnt see me as a girl he wants to "date" but someone he wants to really have a future with. he said i have all the qualities he is looking for in a "wife". i am flattered but i told him to slow down- He agreed. He and i are very happy- i htink him more than me. i have never been treated with such respect and kindness. He is an absolute gentleman. i feel like I am in a dream. The only problem is i feel we don't spend enough time together so we are working on that. Most importantly, he listens to me-really listens. he said he loves to listen to me talk. He has met my family and a 2 of my friends. i have met his family and ALL of his friends. They all know me- and one time when his friend met me he said " I heard a lot about you, nice to meet you" and turned to my boyfriend and said "congratulations; I am happy for you". We have little disagreements now and then, but for the most part i am really happy. My main question is that is it strange that he wants sex every weekend when i see him, even though we only see each other Saturday and Sunday? I don't feel he's using me for that it's clear that he isn't but it seems really hard for him to control himself. he can't keep his hands off. I am flattered but i also feel like whats wrong with me? I should be happy he wants everything right? Sex, going out, talking...what do you guys think? Thanks for any advice you can give to me.
Here is my situation- i knew this guy for awhile before we started dating. he works in a cafe that i go to and we have been friendly for several months. We recently started dating a little over a month ago. He seems crazy about me. We only see each other basically on the weekends because of both our work schedules. Sometimes during the week after i finish my job, I see him for about half an hour. We talk everyday and he wants me to stay at his apartment for a few days with him, but i still live at home(I am 26)and my mom is a bit protective. he has even mentioned to me i could bring some of my stuff and leave it at his apartment. He wants sex every weekend. So it's basically once a week, if any. So there are times we have sex, then go out to eat, do something fun-, take walks whatever. Sometimes no sex, we go out, have fun. Its just really great with him no matter what we do. But it's as if we are married.- If I need him, he's there- when we go out he pays for everything. He has told me- Don't ever worry about paying unless he asks me- he has even told me he doesnt see me as a girl he wants to "date" but someone he wants to really have a future with. he said i have all the qualities he is looking for in a "wife". i am flattered but i told him to slow down- He agreed. He and i are very happy- i htink him more than me. i have never been treated with such respect and kindness. He is an absolute gentleman. i feel like I am in a dream. The only problem is i feel we don't spend enough time together so we are working on that. Most importantly, he listens to me-really listens. he said he loves to listen to me talk. He has met my family and a 2 of my friends. i have met his family and ALL of his friends. They all know me- and one time when his friend met me he said " I heard a lot about you, nice to meet you" and turned to my boyfriend and said "congratulations; I am happy for you". We have little disagreements now and then, but for the most part i am really happy. My main question is that is it strange that he wants sex every weekend when i see him, even though we only see each other Saturday and Sunday? I don't feel he's using me for that it's clear that he isn't but it seems really hard for him to control himself. he can't keep his hands off. I am flattered but i also feel like whats wrong with me? I should be happy he wants everything right? Sex, going out, talking...what do you guys think? Thanks for any advice you can give to me.
