Is this normal?
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Is this normal?
| Wed, 06-09-2004 - 1:03am |
I am a 17 year old female. My boyfriend who is 19 is a wonderful person and he gets along with my parents really well. We have been dating for about a year and a half. He is very nice and respectfull towards me and treats me well. But lately he has got into this thing where he likes to drape me (bare) across his knees and spank me before we make love. Not really hard, in fact just playfully it only stings a little. I do not mind this, if this is what makes him happy then he can do it. I just wanted to run this by a few other girls to see if they have ever run into this. I guess it is just an innocent thing. Thanks Kyla
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| Wed, 06-09-2004 - 8:56am |
You might get some more constructive feedback on the Lets Talk About Sex board here at Ivillage but if its not painful and it works, seems OK to me.

| Wed, 06-09-2004 - 9:35am |
this is a a little bondage thing. many people are into giving or receiving spankings (and other things) and that's fine if their partner is into it, too. if you don't feel ok with it, you have to deal with the fact that your boyfriend is turned on by this and may be looking for some other outlet. because he's not doing things with you, it doesn't mean that he stops being turned on by it.
