Not dating, but would like an opinion

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Not dating, but would like an opinion
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Thu, 03-22-2007 - 12:09pm

I am a very active member of a gym, daily during the week. A man that works there and I have been friendly. I figured since he worked at the gym he was being friendly to me because that is his job so I didn't pay him too much attention, we've been talking to each other for a year. But lately I have decided that his friendliness is more of a flirtation. I like my gym and I am not interested in compromising my membership. I do like the guy(or did) but I am getting a little irritated almost, because he doesn't ask me out, just smiles and flirts. This is starting to make me uncomfortable because I feel like he is getting something from this constant flirtation.

There is a part of me that wants to ask him out just to get him to either stop or get him to make a move. Is this irrational on my part?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-22-2007 - 2:40pm

He's probably just one of those guys who enjoys flirting and doesn't have any intentions of taking it any further. I would either make peace with that, or stop flirting back if you aren't able to be ok with it.

Sheri