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| Sun, 02-18-2007 - 10:50am |
So..I have been seeing this guy for like 4 few dates and We have hung out and slept over at each other's schools 4 or 5 times as well. I knew him from a few years ago and we just reconnected. I really like him now and I can tell he likes me. He asked me out for valentines and gave me flowers and we just flirt and hes very sweet and gentlemen like. The only problem is, he barely initiates. I found myself being too forward with him and I realized I was usually the one who held hi hand or started the kiss. So I went to visit him the other day at his school for the night and decided to back off a bit and see if he would put moves on me. he didnt hold my hand once the whole night or kiss me...we went back to his room..he asked his roomate to stay somewhere else for the night, he didnt even try to kiss me and in his bed, we didnt cuddle or hold becauese i didnt initiate like last times.. we woke up and didnt touch once really..the next day when he dropped me off at train, he didnt initiate either so i kissed him bye..he called me later that day and hited at a future date together...but like. the point is, I know he likes me..but he doesn't seem to wanna rip my clothes off or kiss me, I like him and wanna be desired by him..it's wierd he didnt even try anything..and we have been a little more intimate when I initiate. I don;t wanna initiate all the time. I wanna know he wants to hold my hand. I wanna wait 1 date more to c if its just me...u think he picked up on my vibe and noticed I didnt wanna hold his hand and he backed off? How do i get him to initiate? I dont wana bring it up yet,I wanna see what he got lol.
he has kissed me in the past here and there..it just seemed like when i backed off, he backed off, which made me more distant and him in turn, more distant lol..but i want him to be forward, then I will too
| Sun, 02-18-2007 - 4:24pm |
