Not Infatuated...is this good?
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Not Infatuated...is this good?
| Sun, 08-01-2004 - 2:12am |
I met a really nice guy last weekend on vacation. He lives a few hours from me, but we get along really great and we've been talking everynight. I like him alot, but I don't find myself infaturated with him. I think about him ALOT...but he's not the only thing on my mind. Yet when I talk to my friends, I always talk about him and I seem really obsessed. We're taking things slow, we went out on one date while we were up there, but right now we're just getting to know eachother. The first few days after I met him I thought about him alot, but the past few days I haven't been thinking about him as much. Is this normal? I'm DEFINATELY interested in him...he's really great.I'm just a few months out of an abusive relationship, so I'm not quite away of that the "norm" is. Any advice would help! Thanks!

If you are interested and think about him, continue dating him and knowing better. With time, and by knowing him better you can become feeling infatuated, but with what he really is, and not what you think he is. You can also never become infatuated and win a good friend. Everything can happens. Just start dating and focus on knowing him and having a good time, not if you feel or not infatuated, it's way too soon for that. Good luck!