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| Mon, 02-13-2006 - 10:42am |
Dating this guy, he has a 3 year old child, he is 23 I am only 19. I love kids and really like this guy, my problem is he works 5 days a week 3-11 I work 8-5 so he comes out maybe 3-4 times a week around 11:30 or so and stays until 3 or better. I don't mind that at all it doesn't bother me. When we first started talking he said we can be friends and see where is goes from there, well it has only been about 3 weeks since we started talking he calls everyday when he gets up, gets home, wants to hang out calls me, I never have to call likes making plans to get together and do things we BOTH like not just him, and he has just mentioned me meeting his son! Do I make a big deal out of this or just let it flow and see what happens? I am really starting to get into him and I don't want to do something that I am going to regret.

confusedbutamazed...
PG suggests that you NOT PUSH THINGS BEYOND FRIENDSHIP....at least for the moment!
Why?
Because you might become nothing more than "a designated babysitter" for his 3-year old!
Pianoguy
....."we are going to a local hotel for the entire weekend.... He has agreed to not try anything, "that's not what I am into you for!" A line of respect to get some or a real line of respect.".....
IT'S only been 3 weeks so everything is still rather preliminary -but do you mean he comes at 11:30 PM til 3:AM every nite - that doesn't sound ideal at all. It sounds like bed buddies.
Do you see each other on the weekend at all? As for the son just be casual and act toward the child like a friend, the child has a mom, right? How long ago did this guy and his ex break up?