Not Sure About this "Relationship"

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Registered: 08-07-2005
Not Sure About this "Relationship"
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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 8:46pm

Hi,


I have posted about my situation before.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 9:47pm

bunny - while I'm not against the older woman-younger man situation at all - just what does a 44 YO with a child have in common with a 26 YO whose never been married or had kids - and how are those commonalities going to grow into your midlife and his prime?

Toni

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 5:56pm

<< Any advice, comments would be appreciated. >>


All previous advice still stands.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 7:37pm

Hi Bunny,


I've never dated with an age difference before, but I do understand your point about time together.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2005
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 8:30pm

Hi,


I think that long distance relationships and relationships in which the people are apart a lot can work if the people involved work to stay in touch and communicate.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 1:19am

Hi Bunny,


You're right that long distance relationships can work.

 
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 5:29pm



iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2005
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 9:00pm

Hi,


Thanks for this post.

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Registered: 04-02-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 9:07pm

"And if anyone is going to say "I love you" first, it is NOT going to be me. " IMO that is game playing, and that has no business in a mature adult relationship.

This statement should tell you something about yourself and your relationship......
You tell someone you love them because it is what you feel, (hopefully an honest feeling)
YOU don't tell them hoping they will say something back, or wait for them to say it first. You tell them because that is the way you honestly feel.... If you can't communicate with them honestly WHY are you with them?

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Sat, 03-01-2008 - 2:02pm

Nothing has changed from the 47 other times you've given this boy toy

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2005
Sat, 03-01-2008 - 3:02pm

Hi,


To an extent relationships, dating, anything involving a man and woman involve some song and dance, i.e., game playing, if that is what you want to call it.

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