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Not sure if I'm that special to him
| Sun, 10-21-2007 - 11:28am |
I've been dating a guy for 1 1/2 months, seeing him twice a week lately and the last three Saturdays.

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Well, personally, I think you have articulated exactly what happened.
Honey, 1 1/2 months is nothing to be thinking in dating "exclusively". He's dating more women, but being sexual with you AND others perhaps? If you've had bad experiences in the past regarding sexual behavior, then what are you doing sleeping with this guy before talking exclusive? Ya know, you're sleeping with all the other women as well.
I'd stop the sex and date other men, like he's dating other women. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. This way, you'll be choosing and not waiting to be chosen.
Did you talk to him about dating other people before or after getting physical?
I personally would cut him off, as in not see him anymore.
Looking at exclusivity after 6 weeks is not too soon.
If I am reading this correctly, the two of you never had a coversation about only dating each other?
YG
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Hi Newlyfoundsunshine,
I completely 100% agree with how you feel. It's not just Europe where some people believe that, it's me too and I'm in the U.S.
You asked him a question ... he gave you an honest answer, that he was still seeing other people ... which he (and you) are allowed to do prior to establishing exclusivity ... if being exclusive is what you want and its not what he wants, then ... you cut your loses.
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