Not sure what to think?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2005
Not sure what to think?
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Wed, 09-26-2007 - 8:46am

I'm sure i'm over thinking this one, but i'm curious. I met a guy a week and a half ago at a bar. Once we met we chatted until i left. He got my number. He called 2 days later, we had a good conversation. He let me know he was going home to his parents house (out of state) on wed and would be gone till this past sunday, but would i want to meet up when he gets back. I said sure. So he called this past monday, but he didnt leave a voicemail. I wasnt sure what to do at first...i jsut had a missed call. friends told me to just call back. He answered when i called. We talked for a little over 10 min. He asked me what nights i'm free this week. The one night i wasnt free was the night he wanted to do something. He had plans to see a b-ball game tuesday and tonight. he seemed uncomfortable asking for a friday date, but it came off as sort of uninterested to me. He said yeah we can get a bite to eat, then some drinks, then maybe you can meet up with you friends or something. I was a bit put off by that. I know we dont know each other well, but we have met face to face, had a conversation 3 times now...i would think it's past the point of worrying about having a bad time but whatever. He then suggested we meet at 5:30pm. I was like, how about 6 since i work till 5? what is up with such an early date on a friday? If he has plans later, maybe he should have just suggested another night?


What do you think? I just dont want to waste my time with someoen who's not really interested in me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 10:45am
Does he sound bitter to you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 10:59am

i guess maybe a little? Sounds like he has a tough job, plus he said he jsut got out of a 3 year rl.


I'm wondering if i should text him thank you, i had fun? one of my friends said i should, but im not sure. I figure he plans to call, he'll call..

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 12:31pm

<< I'm wondering if i should text him thank you, i had fun? one of my friends said i should, but im not sure. I figure he plans to call, he'll call..>>


Since you don't really care if he calls or not, does it really matter if you text or not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 12:38pm
yeah i did build him up i guess. Im not sure how i feel. I think i would like him to call again and see how another date goes...but i'm not sure i need to text him? I had a nice time, but it's not like i'm thinking, OMG this is the one, if he doesnt call me, i'll be so upset.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2007
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 2:23pm
I wouldn't text him.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 5:46pm
Well, if someone treated me to a good time whether it be friend or date I would call and say thanks.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2007
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 6:40pm
Definitely no reason to be rude and I'm not suggesting that at all.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 6:52pm

<< Im not sure how i feel. I think i would like him to call again and see how another date goes...but i'm not sure i need to text him? >>


Then don't.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2007
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 7:23pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 8:36pm

Absolutely.

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