nothing serious

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2005
nothing serious
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Mon, 07-31-2006 - 10:26pm
if a man tells you that due to circumstances he cant have anything serious right now, but wants to still hang out with you, tells you he likes you, do you do this? You have known him about a month and have not had sex. Would it be wasting time to think he'd come around?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: corbeach
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 2:57am
Thanks for clarifying your point of view. It seems that it's her desicion to get involved or not with this guy under the present circumstances. He's expressed to her his position of not wanting anything serious at this me. She, though, appears to be thinking in that he may come around if she sees him, meaning "he'll change his mind", which we know that it won't occur any time soon. He has an agenda already and he'll behave acordingly. She hopes that he'll change his mind.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: corbeach
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 3:02am

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WEll the person doesnt necessarily have to be a player. They just have a lot going on in life and not enough time for a relationship>>

You may find it amusing and funny now, but you're not taking into consideration what comes with these kinds of deals when one of the parties is expecting more than what the other is willing to offer. It all comes down to frustration, anger and hurt, beside the waste of time.

I wonder what the reasons are for him to not have time for a serious relationship?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2005
In reply to: corbeach
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 10:43am

i was laughing at the way the other poster called him a player.

Did i even say this was about me?

I have had men say this to me before, once time i did agree and yes I got hurt.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: corbeach
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 1:57pm

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Not really, I assumed it was you. My mistake.

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