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| Mon, 06-04-2007 - 1:56am |
I had my first date last night with a nice, sweet, sucessful guy. But, here's the catch-I didn't feel any chemistry. His face was alright, and he was shorter than I like, but I didn't feel any sexual excitement. He has asked to see me again, and has even started to call me sweetie. He may be too nice.
So my question to you guys is: If the chemistry is not there on the first date, will it ever be there?? Am I wasting my or his time, if I agree to go out with him again?

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Hi sweet,
What is your usual? Do you usually know when it's not a match after the first date? If so, I say don't go again. Pretty much for me, whenever I have gone out with a guy and didn't feel a little something, it never showed up the second time.
On the other hand, I say it's OK to try a second time...you never know, he could look different to you this next time. But like you, I'd be a little uncomfortable with him calling me "sweety." I know you don't want to lead him on if you think he's getting attached already, so I know it can be a tough call.
snafu: "Pint taken, but we don't know how long the date was. Sweetivy, how long was this first date?"
Hi, snafu. The first date was long. We went to dinner and then went to a movie. It was only supposed to be a movie, but he wanted to extend it.
To everyone, thank you all for the replies. I will give this another date, and try to get to know this person. He calls me everyday without me asking him to, so I'm getting to know him more as we talk. Last night, he opened up more. He is everything I would want on paper, a really decent guy, so I will go on another date and report back to you guys.
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