Oh boy...just my lousy luck again:(
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Oh boy...just my lousy luck again:(
| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 5:37pm |
Just as I had really given up on finding even a halfway normal guy who doesn't just want to play games or only have sex for a night, I met a LOVELY man online who comes from the country I am about to travel to and work in. Sounds good? NO! He is from the absolute other end of the country! I am going up North and he lives right down South! He plays in a small orchestra at the weekends and so this is how his time is taken up (he has just had his 40th birthday and never been married) but said he would like very much to meet me and will travel up to the city I am going to be as soon as he is able. I have made no commitments yet in this city but have 3 work interviews; the work situation for me there is better than in all the other places in that country and it is more cosmopolitan. Of course if he and I had met and eg been together a while it would be different but I cannot and will not change my plans now. I think whilst it is not possible to maintain a long distance relationship forever surely if he is keen he will not lose touch with me and will make the effort to see me from time to time? The trouble is, having met him, my enthusiasm for this new place is dampened feeling that, if he happened to be right for me and I for him, I could not settle in this city and after say a year would have to think about relocating. I suppose yes, I am being premature but I cannot believe my bad luck in meeting someone with whom I connected so strongly and who couldn't be much further away in the same country.

Yes it's easier not to start a relationship long distance and who knows if this guy would even be right for you.