OK to have relations???
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OK to have relations???
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 7:06pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for one month, his adult son moved home last week, just out of the military, Now the boyfriend is unsure if it is "ok" to have relations while his son is there because he told the son he cannot have girlfriends over and staying the night or have sex under his roof.
I told him I understand, but that in my opinion, its HIS roof he pays the bills and we are consenting adults in a committed relationship...
Should I push my opinion or just let it be???

Hi,
I say both. I would give it a little time for all to get adjusted to the new arrangements. It is probably difficult for him to make the adjustment that it is his adult son living with him, not his son the college kid. You have only been together for a month, it is probably committed, but certainly not long term yet. Maybe that is what he wants his son to see?
Thank you for your response, we talked last night, I don't disagree with his dilema, I understand, we are just going to take it a day at a time and try to fit in some alone time. If we get adjusted now we are prepared for when his 2 other adult sons come home as well...OH MY!
Thanks again...wish me luck.
I have a 17 year old son...Out timing is going to be interesting so say the least. You know that Murphy's Law thing is working right now.
Thanks for responding