OK..I need first date advice quick
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OK..I need first date advice quick
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 5:04pm |
Have a date with this guy I met online...we've clicked on IM and by phone..though I know the real test is in person and I'm keeping my hopes in check. Anyway, if things go well, how do you let a guy know it's ok for him to kiss you goodnight? From all the talking we've done, I pretty sure he's a bit old fashioned. He laughed last night and said he was married up until a year ago and hasn't dated since his divorce as he needed some time to himself and he's not sure what to do on a first date. Then said he's never been the type to "make a move" (referring to kissing or asking someone out, we weren't talking sex) because he is always afraid the woman will be uncomfortable and doesn't want her to feel that way. So..how do I let him know it's OK?
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| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 5:07pm |
I think if its a good date schedule another. When you are both comfortable, the kiss WILL happen.
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 5:08pm |
I would not kiss him on the first date - wait for him to feel comfortable enough to kiss you - the first date is probably too soon for him, in this situation (and you are way ahead of yourself because you don't know if you'll click).
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 5:19pm |
Thanks..I know I'm ahead of myself...I just don't want him to think I'm not interested if we do click. Past experience: Met a guy online, had a great time and we made plans for another date (he initiated). I said, well thank you so much..blah, blah, blah and when we got to my car I got in and left. On date two..he admitted he felt unsure I was really interested because I didn't even give him time to end with a kiss goodnight. We dated a few more times but he still would go back to that first night and things just stalled and died.
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 6:50pm |
I find that behavior unusual. Most gentleman do not expect a kiss after a first meeting especially if it is through an online site.
