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old flame pops his head back
| Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:52am |
recently, the guy i've been "chummy" with about a year ago has popped his head back into my life. we chat online everyday, he asks me to hang out from time to time, asks me to call him, and wants me to go see his games. i'm confused because after "hanging out" for about 5 months or so a year ago, i asked him where he saw things were going between us...he said he just wanted to have fun, but that he enjoyed my company. i felt very lead on by him, but maybe i was just naive? i have a thick guard up now...but do you blame me?!i still have some feelings for him and i am very much attracted to him physically and personality wise...but how do i know he's not going to do the same thing again? what should i do? should i "hang out" with him? it doesnt hurt right...as long as i dont get attached? any advice would be appreciated!!

You have to do what's right for you, and I don't think hanging out with this guy, hoping he'll be interested in you is the right thing. Right now he might be thinking that you like him so well that you might be up for some without the commitment.