old life messing with new one
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old life messing with new one
| Sat, 11-18-2006 - 10:02pm |
so i have recently gotten divorced from my husband and went to school and you know moving on.its for the best.well i've meet this great guy.we will talk for hours and not have a dull moment.well last night was the first real date.well things went really well.so hes in college to become a meterologist..so hes busy.well sometimes i feel like im being rejected if he dont want to hang out with me or like he dont want to have nothing to do with me.when in actuallity hes just busy with school.i know this has to do with my past..what should i do.also he says he dont know where this is going to go..i know he likes me,hes told me but i just dunno what to think.its like im in constant battle with myself..help

How long has your divorce been finalized? Really the only solution in my eyes is to build up your own life so when he's living his, you don't feel rejected. Have you thought about going back to school or taking some courses that you're just interested in? Do you hang out with friends and do things that you enjoy without him? I would say that's the most important thing to do... live your life as though he's not there. This way not only will you enjoy your own life, you'll respect his and give each other enough space to grow separately. Makes sense?
Well you're newly out of a marriage so the main person you have to work on having a relationship with is yourself.