Older n divorced

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Older n divorced
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Wed, 07-21-2004 - 1:26pm
im dating a guy that is 10 yrs older than me and has been married, im 20 hes 30 he dindt had any kids with his previous marriage, how can this affect our relationship? It makes me mad that he was and that she still calls him, how can i tell him that it bothers me, im afraid that he might changed over that how can i ask him? or should i just keep my mouth shut and pretend like nothing is going on.... Any advice ??? I would really appreciated it thanks
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Registered: 12-23-2003
In reply to: sunjenn
Wed, 07-21-2004 - 2:10pm

It makes you mad that he was married before?

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Registered: 01-24-2005
In reply to: sunjenn
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 6:42pm

Well, it seems as though you and I share the same dilemma. I really have no other advice to offer except that: He will continue to talk to his ex until, he is deeply head over heels in love with you. The man I am dating is 13yrs. older than me and still talks to his ex on a daily basis. However, they share custody of thier little girl. Nevertheless, it still bothers me, and I think the exwife knows that it does. I hope that after you set him down and tell him exactly how you feel about it he will does something to stop her from calling so much. Although, if he doesn't........you know what you have to do.

I hope it works out for you, gypsy