Out of line?

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Registered: 08-22-1998
Out of line?
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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:18am
I had a date with a great new guy on Friday and he ended up asking me out again for the next night. I said sure...while completely forgetting that I had made plans with a friend for the same night! I've never been a girl to break a promise, especially for a guy, so I called him and let him know. He seemed okay about it, but someone told me that i should've went with him instead. Was I wrong in doing this?
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Registered: 05-11-2000
In reply to: jrobbies
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:36am
I think you did a great thing by honoring your plans with your friend.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jrobbies
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 11:10am
No, you absolutely did the right thing. Blowing off a friend for a guy is wrong, wrong, wrong.

The only thing I wonder is if you suggested other nights you were free when you talked to the guy to make it clear you wanted to reschedule, not cancel altogether. I would have done that just to make sure he knew I was still interested.

Sheri

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Registered: 08-22-1998
In reply to: jrobbies
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 11:24am
I appreciate both of your responses...I have a split opinion from other friends on what I should have done. But this decision just felt right. I know how it feels when friends have done it to me for a guy...the only thing is this morning I was on my instant messenger, and I noticed his name was "Corazòn quebrado". I've taken a few Spanish classes to know that it means "broken heart". whoa...now what?!