oye...what's a girl to do?

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Registered: 02-04-2004
oye...what's a girl to do?
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 5:12pm
i had a boy over last night and we were supposed to rent a movie and chill. we ended up talking for a bit then he started making the moves and i made it clear to him i wasn't going to have sex w/ him. that was cool w/ him for about 1 hr then he tried again. and once he left i was really confused. i dont think i'm attracted to him like i was the 1st time i saw him.

the whole time i was thinking about another guy and how he was a better kisser than this new guy, and how with him it felt right to go further and i didnt have to stop things. but i didnt want to do anything w/ this new guy. i thought about the other guy for the majority of the night - that's NOT healthy!

we had some issues these last couple weeks and i talked to a mutual friend and he said we have to make things right between us again. and as much as i didnt want to - i did. and now that we did i forgot how well things get with us. and that keeps me from being with other guys. i dont know how to get over this barrier