PART TIME LOVER

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Registered: 05-09-2004
PART TIME LOVER
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Fri, 06-11-2004 - 11:19am
ABOUT A FEW MONTHS AGO A GUY I'VE KNOWN SINCE I WAS VERY YOUNG WE GREW UP TOGETHER, WE HAD MESSED AROUND ABOUT 7 YEARS AGO. AND ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO WE REUNITED AND TALKED AND ETC., SO WE ALWAYS KNEW WE HAD FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER BUT WE NEVER GOT A CHANCE TO BE WITH ONE ANOTHER BECAUSE I HAD AN BOYFRIEND AND HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND.( IKNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM FROM WHEN WE WERE 8 UP TO NOW 27). i DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW AND HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, SOME ONE TOLD ME THAT HE HAS TOLD ALL THE FEMALES THAT HE EVER BEEN WITH ABOUT ME. HOW SPECIAL I WAS TO HIM,AND STILL IS HE EVEN TOLD HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND (BUT SHE DOESN'T KNOW WE FOOLED AROUND. EVERY TIME I TALK TO HIM HE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT US BEING TOGETHER, HE SAID THINGS WOULD BE PERFECT BECAUSE WE BOTH KNOW EACH OTHER VERY, VERY WELL. I KNOW THAT HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND THAT HE HAS IS A REBOUND ONE FROM HIS PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP, SHE'S BASICALLY BUYING HIM, SHE BOUGHT HIM A CAR ETC. SHE'S 37 AND HE'S 27. mY QUESTION IS SHOULD I BELIEVE WHAT HE SAYS ABOUT US BEING TOGETHER ONE DAY, OR IS HE JUST PLAYING WITH MY FEELING ? ANY ANSWERS WILL BE APPRECIATED!!! THANK yOU
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Registered: 05-26-2004
In reply to: ptlover25
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 11:26am

Heres the questions:

Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: ptlover25
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 11:44am
Those were my questions! And I would add: why are even entertaining these conversations? i would saying "you have a gf, this kind of talk is inappropriate"...and as to being "perfect together"...knowing everything about someone does NOT guarantee a perfect r/ship. Someone can walk beside me as a friend for decades...but that will never give us the experience/understanding of walking beside each other, holding hands as lovers...there are no guarantees in r/ships.
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Registered: 01-05-2004
In reply to: ptlover25
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 2:24pm
Regardless of whether or not he's playing with your feelings, you need to treat this situation as though he is. He has not made a commitment to you in any way, and until he does (and even after maybe) you cannot afford to invest that much in him. Period. Plus he has a girlfriend, who he's clearly not leaving any time soon.

Back off and find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend.

Ivy

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