Passive Man = Frustrated Woman

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Passive Man = Frustrated Woman
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Fri, 07-23-2004 - 6:33pm
The guy I've been hanging out with is clearly into me. He wants to spend time with me, cook for me, all that. However, he always seems to want me to be the one to call him. He says things like "Call me tomorrow". I've said, "How about you call me?". I'm a woman that likes to be pursued. I might add that he was into me for months before I gave him a chance. And now I'm starting to like him more and get closer to him. How can a woman get a man to be more agressive? Am I old-fashioned or what?

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 6:39pm
Well I guess you just need to tell him to call YOU before he has a chance to say call ME. Maybe since he's pursued you all this time, he feels good knowing that you are now *pursuing* him?

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 6:47pm
It may be nice for him now, but my experience is that guys stay interested when they are challenged and have to work at getting a woman's attention. Also, I don't want to ask him to call me. I want him to call on his own accord ya know.

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