Past flame heating up?? or fizzed out?

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Registered: 01-11-2006
Past flame heating up?? or fizzed out?
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Sun, 01-29-2006 - 5:39pm

Hey all, well a bit about me, I'm 25 and have been out of the whole "dating" thing for about a year and a half now. back in 2003 I met and dated a great guy for over 6 mos, we were not in a place that we wanted a commited relationship and just decited to end things before deeper feelings came into play, recently we have been talking and I asked him if he wanted to get together just for coffee to catch up (we have not seen or talked in over a year) his responce to that was "hmmm...not sure about that" what does this mean? I have asked him if he is involved with someone and he has not responded to it, and I dont know what else to do. when we dated before I was 22 and to be honest imature, I was possesive and always wanting to be with him 24/7, I know I was even pushy about a few things, but we always had fun together, we "fit". I dont know what to do, my mom told me that "men are like dogs, if you chase them they will run away, but if you dont do anything they will come to you" I understand this but he hasent even responded to the one question I asked him. I told him that if he was involved that I did not want to interfear or cause problems, but still nothing.......I truly like this guy and hope that we can become friends again and see how it goes from there we both work full time and are in college full time (same school) any advise would be great!!!

Thanks
Jen

Jen



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Registered: 09-24-2005
Sun, 01-29-2006 - 7:12pm

He is not ready. Don't pursue him...
Do move on..