Penis to big around .. Help

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Registered: 10-20-2005
Penis to big around .. Help
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Thu, 10-20-2005 - 1:18am

Thanks, for being here okay. I started seeing this Man I really like everything about him but in some foreplay I found out hes super large in the male department. I ended the night with alot of kissing, but realy wanted more. I am very small and even smaller because of scarring I had during some sugeries. I told him tonight why I didnt see him last night and he told me, its not a problem that he and I can still work out that hes very oral. And then said after a few months it will work, it was that way with him and ohter women. Iam not other women Iam very touchy and small and I cant handle pain had enough in my lifetime. Is there any thing I can do, could this work out? Is there anything like a well surgery for him< not saying he would even go for it... but thats the only thing holding me back.. I really feel so much for him. thanks
Its not length its size around, totally unreal how big round it is. thanks


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Registered: 08-10-2003
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 2:05pm
If a woman can pass an eight-ounce baby, certainly she can accomodate a thick penis. It take s a lot of foreplay, lubrication and patience to do it though.
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 2:44pm

Aren't you jumping the gun a bit??

What if it doesn't even hurt? If you haven't had sex with him yet how will you know if you don't try.

I wouldn't be ending it with what you "perceive" will happen.

I don't think there is any surgery that can slim the guy down.

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 3:56pm

Ya know, I lot of women (and men!) would love to have your problem (smile).

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Registered: 10-20-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 5:21pm

Hi Sniffle Sally,
I wished you had read my post before You came to write on it. Was hoping to get some real input not just a comment. If you had read my post you would of seen I said, I am small my husband had a very small and thin penis and I ve had surgery thur there now 3 times that have made me even smaller and I said, this mans penis is bigger than you can get your hand around. If you think shoving or lubing up somthing as big as a soda can in a 3 inch hole could fit think again. Some things and eye can assume. But thanks for saying somthing You were the only one that has.
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 6:33pm

I did read your post.

I never suggested anything of the sort about lube etc. I said why are you jumping the gun, if you think you are too small to accomodate him then dump him but i think you are jumping the gun. If you've already made your mind up about the situation why are you asking advice? I'm merely saying I wouldn't jump the gun before it even gets to that point.

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Registered: 10-20-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 11:57pm
Hey sally, I guess I was hoping some medical person would tell me if there was such a thing as reduction, heck we get reductions. lol
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Registered: 10-17-2005
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 6:30pm
what if u really get lubed up, does it still hurt? i would love to have a guy with a big penis. My guy does not really have one that i like but i will try to see how i can enjoy sex and make sure that i dont go back to my x for sex.
my x's was thick but sex with him was incredible. I understand how it is to meet a new guy and be really into him but sex is not what you are used too. Speak to the gynogologist and see if there are any things u can do
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 11:54pm
Don't you mean an Eight Pound baby? And it takes a lot of foreplay, lubrication, and patience to do that, too ~ it's called labor!