phone-phobic??

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Registered: 08-14-2004
phone-phobic??
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:12am
i've been exchanging some email with the guy i like. we were trying to set something up, and emailing back and forth...but i was going to be out of town for two weeks right before the date we had been thinking about, August 19th. So, i sent him an email saying i was going out of town for two weeks, and gave him my cell so we could finalize the plans. (we'd picked a date, but not what we were going to do, when, etc.)...and he never called...he just sent me back an email saying his ideas of what we could do. this is the second time he's done this...i was out of town for a week when we were still trying to pick a date cause of our busy schedules.

i told him to call me on my cell cause i didn't think i'd be able to get to my email....why in the world did he not call and send an email back??

am i over analyzing this, or does this seem weird to you guys too?

-Liz Anne



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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lizzy534
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 9:13pm
Yeah, it's weird. Maybe he's getting what he wants, lots of fun email, but he doesn't want anything else like to meet you in real time or to give you phone time. Maybe he lives with someone or is lying about something...BTDT (a lot) with online personals.
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Registered: 08-14-2004
In reply to: lizzy534
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 10:04pm
i didn't meet him online, he's a friend of a friend. we exchanged email to keep in touch cause he moved about an hour away. As far as i know, and as far as my freind knows, he doesn't have a girlfriend. he got out of a long, painful relationship a year ago, and when they broke-up he said he needed to steer clear of girls for a while till he got himself back together...but he seems fine around girls now.


-Liz Anne