Piano guy & others please help

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2006
Piano guy & others please help
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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 1:51pm

Hi guys. I've been on about 3 dates with this guy. On those dates there was heavy kissing and petting, but no sex. His ardor was strong in the beginning, now he's cooled off a bit. Anyway, after our last date, he didn't contact me for 2 days. But, he did and we chatted for a bit, went smoothly. After that, there was no contact for 9 days. Then when he did contact me on that 9th day, he said he hadn't heard from me and that he misses our talks, hopes I do too and then he asked if he will hear from me again...Also, he did try to explain the no contact saying that he was very swamped with some things this past week.

It's been 2 days and I haven't sent a return message yet. Is that rude? I'm trying to show him he can't neglect me if he wants to date me, and he knows it was neglect, hence the tone of his message.

What shoud I do guys? He's admitted to dating another girl. How do I know he's not out for sex and sex only. I mean there was no contact for 9 days and does a man treat a woman he likes like this??

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 2:46pm

sweetlily2006...

PG has already responded to this question on the ASK THE ANSWER MAN board. So perhaps a few other ivillagers who like to 'take a crack at it?'

Pianoguy