PISSED OFF for once...

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Registered: 03-17-2006
PISSED OFF for once...
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Sun, 12-03-2006 - 6:17am

Okay. I'm not a person who gets angered easily AT ALL. I'm also not anal about many things. But I am anal about getting my sleep each night. I am also a virgin (just haven't found the right person to be with yet.) Anyways. Consider all that and read this.

I live with my best friend and her boyfriend. She always prides herself on how courteous and nontouchy they are or whatever. Last night at 1am, I woke up to her moaning. AKA, having sex. It pissed me off then, and I'm still pissed off now at 4am. After that, they turned the TV on LOUDLY. I never fell back asleep. I don't care if it's a Saturday night.

Lately I'm so sick of couples and couple talk I could puke. I'm not jealous, it's just everywhere in the world around me and its like, enough already!!! Now this!!!

Do I have a right to be pissed? How do I deal with this? Get a box fan to block out any future noise? When she asks why I got it, do I tell her the real reason why? Do I tell her next time to get a hotel room or I will? Please help me out here!

I haven't felt pissed like this in a long time. I think I'll go out for the day and just clear my mind.

Thanks in advance for your replies! Whoof! I think I cooled down a little just typing that...

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Fri, 12-08-2006 - 12:00am
Well, this is more of a roommate question than a dating question, but... About the only thing you can do is ask her / them to be quiet, at least before and after sex. If she can't contain her moaning, that's one thing, but they don't have to turn on the TV too loud. Soooo, ask her to keep as quiet as possible in all things at night. She may say "no", but at least you will have asked.
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Registered: 03-17-2006
Fri, 12-08-2006 - 12:18am

She's never been loud before and I've lived with her for almost 3 years. I guess one night out of three years isn't that bad. If it becomes a habit, I'll nip it in the butt!

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