Please confirm (or not) my friends feelings
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|Wed, 08-07-2013 - 2:50pm|
This is my friends experience not mine:
Friend has been casually seeing a guy who came onto her very strong. He spoke of feeling chemistry with her, "connected" and all of that. When they first met in public (both belong to a social group), each time they enjoyed talking to each other. He said he loved talking to her, both agreed they had a lot in common.
They have gotten together a few times...he comes on strongly physically but yet says he loves her style, her interests etc.
Okay...after not communicating for a long time (they decided to "cool off" for a bit) he suddenly texts her in the middle of the night Saturday night (12:30 AM). No "hello, how are you"? no "is it ok to text?", no "are you awake?", no "do you want to talk?".
He simply texts something very suggestive....asking if she is wanting to "hook up".
This is after a month of his not reaching out at all.
My friend feels this is rude and inconsiderate of her feelings. She feels it shows he is not interested in her as a person...and doesn't seem to care to wake her up or bother with engaging with some conversation.
My friend brought up the late night text and he simply said "I was lonesome and reaching out".
Friend told him "I don't think you really like me". She didn't say it in an angry way, just matter of factly. He said "yes I do" but then no asking her why she may think that.
Is it not obvious he is just interested in sex? That it's just a convenience for him? That he is thoughtless? Disrespectful?
Just want to confirm feelings/impressions with this.