I have been dating this guy for going on six months. During these six months we have only been out once,we spend a lot of time together but only back and forth to each other houses and to his friends house.When I ask him about taking me out he tells me his money go to his little girl, so I try not to press the issue because he says we are just friends.
So one day we were talking and he made the comment since you want to go out you may want to get somebody else to take you out because he said he was picking up a second job. So I told him I didn't want to go out with anybody else. So a couple days after this I said I was just going be patient and take things as they come, I decided not to be so available to someone who says we just friends so when this happen. He went crazy, crused me out call me all kind of names because I didn't answer my phone. So I told him he can't get mad we are just friend, so the day he cursed me, I went out with another guy to get something to eat nothing more.
So he called when I was with the other guy I told him I will call him later I was with a friend the cursing started again voicemail after voicemail. To make a long story short this past weekend he call me to tell me he went out with another girl and they had fun, he claims he did this because of what I did, and I ruin our relationship. My question is was I wrong for going out with someone else my purpose was to teach him my world doesn't revolve around him and I didn't appreciate him talking to me any kind of way. Also I asked him.. you said we were just friends why get so angry,he told me he didn't appreciate me being around someone else. Please help I'm just confused I want to be with him but some days he says we are just friends and when I try to distance my self he goes crazy