PLEASE help! Dont know where we stand!?
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| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:34am |
Anyway, during the past weekend, he came over to my house and we just relaxed in my bed, and watched a movie together. But he wasn't very affectionate towards me. He tried to hold my hand while we were watching a movie but then it was very weak, and eventually he let go. We didn't cuddle or anything. Even when we slept in the bed, he never hugged me, and at one point he even turned his back on me. I can't figure him out because he seemed very excited to see me before he came and even stayed at my house for almost 12 hours, yet when we were together, we acted like we were just friends.
I don't know what I should do. I want to ask him where we stand but I don't want to appear too clingy. But at the same time I want to know whether he likes me or not, and if this is going to go anywhere. If not, then I'd rather not continue anything because I don't want to get just physical with him and end up getting hurt.

Even when we are fooling around, he is not very affectionate either. And then there were times when we never even touched each other and just talked all nite, but more like friends' conversation....
bottom line is, I keep getting these mixed signals from him. Sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I think he only likes me as a friend. And it doesn't seem like he's using me for the physical aspect either, because like I said, there were times when we just sat there and talked without doing anything at all. And when we talk, we have fun conversations....
Anyway, as you can tell, I am awfully confused!