Please help I am so confused!!!!!!
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Please help I am so confused!!!!!!
| Fri, 11-18-2005 - 11:53pm |
Here is my problem I think that i am falling for my brothers best friend!!!!! My brother is totally against it. My brother's best friend is also his roommate in college and this guy is so hot and he can have any girl that he wants but the problem is that he has no game. He is so book smart he has a 4.0 average but street smart he is basically an idiot ( as my brother would say). From what my brother tells me alot of girls like him when they see him but once he starts talking they are not interested because he has nothing to say. Here's the thing when he is around me he has no problem talking to me, actually last time i saw him we had a 2 hour conversation. I am just not sure if i should tell this guy that i am interested or not. I am afraid that it will cause problems between me and my brother and i am afraid that he is not intersted at all. Please someone help me.

My experience has been that telling a guy I was into him was not the best way to go about it. It's better to take a risk, to go "with the moment", and more fun, I might add. Start by looking into his eyes a little longer than necessary. If he starts holding longer and longer eye contact with you, that's a very good indicator of interest. You might want to start perusing his lips and chest at that point. If he seems receptive, you might want to lean a little closer, touch him briefly, etc. So much communication is non-verbal.
If it's hard to tell what his feelings are, you will probably have to wait it out. If he appears shy and flustered, being very warm and friendly may eventually get thru his reserve.
Concerning your brother, if his friend is a good guy and you two like each other, why would he be unhappy about it? If he is, there's probably not much he can do about it anyway, right? Good luck!