please help me!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2004
please help me!!
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 11:43am
ok, hes not my boss anymore, but will be again soon. i moved 4 hours from my home to live with some guy, and it didnt work out so i am going home. but when i went home to visit my family and friends after being away for 6 weeks, i went to coffee with my old boss. started out completely platonic...then one thing led to another and well, i ended up having a great night with him. but we were talking, and neither of us are ready for a relationship right now. and there is certantly an age gap...i am 18 and he is 24...i know, i know...doesnt sound big, but it really is sometimes. but i dont know what to do. i am going home in a week and will be working with him again, no one at work knows what happened...but i dont know how to reapproach the situation with him, or if i should let it rest, or transfer to the other store across town and try and work things out with him. is any one capable of helping me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 9:30am
It's not a good situation if you're working with him. If this was a one night stand where you both enjoyed hooking up and noone is pursuing more then it's ok to work together and NOT mention it again. However, if this will be an ongoing thing it's better to change jobs.