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please help very confused
| Fri, 04-16-2004 - 2:39am |
i met this guy through a new friend at work he'd asked her for 3 weeks to set us up so she gave him my number and we talked that night and met the next day for lunch. then 3 days later he brought his 3 yr old son to my house to meet me. he had joint custody of his son and he worked graveyard so we didn't have alot of time to see each other but he would call me about 3 times a day and even from work and we'd go out about once or twice a week. he had offered to let me use his new suv while my car was in the shop, and i live right near the state line of tn and nc and live in nc but there car rules are strict so he offered to let me use his address to tag my car in tn,i also applied for a new job that required lots of computer tests and he offered to help me study the 2nd time i was at his house he showed me where he kept is spare key,showed me old pictures and my friend (who is is cousin) told me he'd been divorced for 2 years and had went on a few dates but nothing else and that he falls in love very quickly and had never treated anyone badly and that he always gets hurt. well the first night i ever spent at his house the next morning his cousins husband came by and they went somewhere and he asked him if we'd slept together and he replied if he had sex with me now he'd never let me go. i had been talking to him about wanting a new car and at 2am he takes me to a car lot to look at them. we dated for about a month and a half it took him 2 weeks to kiss me we never had sex but messed around a little he said he liked to lead up to things like that. we had lots of things in common and really had fun around each other and he told his cousin constantly that he really liked me but then all of the sudden for no reason he stopped taking my calls then one week later he sends me a text message saying he's sorry things weren't working out. and that week he ignored my calls i talked to my friend about it and he was still telling her that he liked me i've not heard from him in 2weeks now and he's not seeing anyone else and we didn't have any kind of a fight and i would really appreciate any insite into this anyone could offer because i know he was a good guy or at least always had been before, to other people and my friend is in shock from it. he had even talked to me about meeting his parents and out of the blue he won't speak too me. so please help. and i can't stop wondering if i'll ever hear from him again (i know thats pathetic ) but the real sad thing is if he'd wanted to stop dating i would've been his friend i just don't understand why he had to make me hate him, but mostly i'm pissed because he hurt me and even more pissed he cheated me out of the chance to tell him he hurt me, so now i'm feeling very alone and i only have the one friend and shes his cousin so i don't want to tell her how bad i feel but i've just never seen someone appear to be so open and care about me then turn around and stop talking to me. and i really just want to know what happened. because even though we'd just known each other a little while i thought he was the one and i can't get him off my mind. and i don't think he was using me for anything but i guess i'll never really know.
Edited 4/16/2004 5:17 am ET ET by tndoll
Edited 4/16/2004 5:17 am ET ET by tndoll
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| Fri, 04-16-2004 - 1:32pm |
You werent concerned that things were moving WAY too fast? If I had to take a guess, I'd say there was a 3rd party involved...he had another woman that he was involved with or has reconciled with.
