POLL about MEN

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2004
POLL about MEN
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Fri, 08-20-2004 - 7:13pm
How long do you typically wait to call a girl after

first date

second date?

Heres my dilemma....we have been out 3 times(one was when we first met, ive been to his place 2 times) He has given me things of his to keep, told me he was going to make time for me(hes just starting his MBA this week) and tells me how beautiful I am, and talks about the future events and he mentioned how he told his parents about me....but its now been 4 days since our last date and he hasn't called.(with the exception of me calling him after our last date to let him know i got home...he insisted) Should I be worried, should I call him or just wait it out? Is this normal behavior...how long do they wait. I really like him and we have a lot in common.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2004
Fri, 08-20-2004 - 7:19pm
I think it's completely normal. You are looking too deep into things. Make him chase you. Yes it has been only three days, but maybe he is really busy. As for the things he says. Guys are dogs !!! They will do anything and say anything to play with your mind because women are just so vulnerable. Not saying that you are but in general. Give it some time. A few more days. Don't call him. Let him wonder what you are doing. If he doesn't call it is his loss. you deserve better.