a practical Q

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
a practical Q
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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 12:11pm
a woman brings beauty to a man's life. what does a man bring to a woman's life?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 4:02pm

sexi lisciouz...

How about....A LOT OF LOVE, UNEXPECTED PAMPERING (AND OCCASIONAL PLEASURE)?

And before any ivillager decides to respond 'in a negative manner'----PG is "ACCENTUATING THE POSITIVE" here!

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 5:21pm

<< How about....A LOT OF LOVE, UNEXPECTED PAMPERING (AND OCCASIONAL PLEASURE)? >>

women give those things to men too though.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:47pm

I Just expect that the man brings an "Easygoing Nature" to the relationship(and hence, some balance), because I tend to not be easygoing ....:-) Now, in reality....umm..hahaa, are they really easy going. interestingly, they do seem so, infact that's one of the things I like about guys, but suddenly, when the guy is in a "relationship", things change. They get possessive.(atleast in my experience)
Now where did that easygoing nature go? :-)

i definitely agree with pianoguy about 'unexpected pampering' though :-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2003
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:50pm

my ideal guy protects me physically and emotionally, ...but I guess I can be protective too. My ideal guy also gives me a family, but I would also be giving that, too. Hmmmm...good question.

maybe that's part of the problem these days...that we don't really need to give each other anything because people have become very self-sufficient. We can take care of ourselves. I sound old-fashioned perhaps.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 8:09pm
well women can be easy going too. thats just a personality trait that both men and women can have. but beauty is something only women can have. women bring their personality traits PLUS beauty to a man's life. and a man brings his personality traits PLUS..what?
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 8:14pm

<< my ideal guy protects me physically and emotionally, ...but I guess I can be protective too. My ideal guy also gives me a family, but I would also be giving that, too. >>

exactly. so everything a man gives a woman, a woman gives a man. but the woman gives the man one more thing in addition -- beauty. so whatever women get from men, men get all that from women PLUS beauty. so there has to be something else a man has to give, to make up for his lack of beauty. otherwise, women would be giving men more than men give women. .

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 9:43pm
perhaps a better wage! i heard women are still ctaching up with men ..there's a pay inequity that still exists today! so unfair to us women. it is ridiculous.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2004
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 10:54am
Maybe you need to define what you mean by beauty. What is it you're saying when you say that a woman brings beauty into a man's life? And why would you say that men lack beauty?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 11:15am

Hi kellyann!

Pianoguy might be completely mistaken, but he senses that "sexi-licious" wishes to "pick a fight" with members of the male population?

You'll notice that all of her previous responses have been 'reinforcing that women' behave in the exact same manner that a man might. So it sounds to me like either convinced...or she's looking for...some sort of affirmation that "WOMEN ARE SUPERIOR TO MEN??"

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 6:07pm
well because women are beautiful. they have beautiful bodies, beautiful faces. you hear people talking about the beauty of women. "you see her bathing on the rooftop, her beauty in the moonlight overthrew you" quotes like that are about women not men.

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