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| Fri, 04-23-2004 - 9:45pm |
Hi,
It's me again. Same old Stuff.
Since the last time I wrote, I have not seen hide nor hair of Mr. Wonderful. Or at least
I have seen his hide as he heads towards the door. He barely looks at me or acknowledges me anymore. I guess he wasn't trying to be a friend after all. I makes me sad to know that when I didn't play his way he chose to dissapear into the ARTIC ZONE for good. Talk about the cold shoulder. Though it still hurts. It doesn't hurt as much as time goes on.
I suppose I thought he was a totally different person than he turned out to be. How wrong I was. His attitude makes me so very glad that I didn't give in to what(I thought) was going on between us.
It's me again. Same old Stuff.
Since the last time I wrote, I have not seen hide nor hair of Mr. Wonderful. Or at least
I have seen his hide as he heads towards the door. He barely looks at me or acknowledges me anymore. I guess he wasn't trying to be a friend after all. I makes me sad to know that when I didn't play his way he chose to dissapear into the ARTIC ZONE for good. Talk about the cold shoulder. Though it still hurts. It doesn't hurt as much as time goes on.
I suppose I thought he was a totally different person than he turned out to be. How wrong I was. His attitude makes me so very glad that I didn't give in to what(I thought) was going on between us.
Does being seperated (not divorced)make it ok to go out for coffee if someone asks me to?
I know that is a dumb question. But If this person is smart,very nice,is a gentelman,and is interested in me. Is that cheating if i say yes.(this is a different person than the affore mentioned person)
I want to get to know other people, but I am not comfortable enough to start sleeping with other men. Will they accept that if those are my rules?

as for sleeping with someone that is all up to you. getting to know someone before you jump into bed with him is a show of good values. i try to find women to date and thats hard for me as i am shy or just nervous to meet them. but i do not try to get them to bed. making love with someone new is a very emotional time. i feel it brings a new dimenion to a relationship and i want to really know this person before hand. i plan on living for a long time and i am in no rush to have a woman feel she may have to sleep with me to be a companion.
i hope that sounded correct.
Be upfront about where you are and what you are seeking...stick to activity partners and making friends.
I am so ready to start my life again. The thought of going back and letting my (ex)husband back into my life turns me cold. Unlike before,when I left, I don't feel as if I've done the wrong thing. He has never been right. He has never treated me as if he loved me. He always showed me that everything and everyone else was more important than me. I realized that he can never give me what I need or treat me the way I deserve, because he doesn't know how and he can't. I am SO VERY HAPPY to be out, even I can't believe how good it feels. But trying something new is a scary though, no matter how bad I want to. If that man can accept the fact that I may have to take it slow, then I will be able to move ahead with whatever we decide to do. I have no intention of letting my (ex)husband be the last man I sleep with. I need love and sex just like the next person. I'm just not trying to move too fast before Im comfortable. Do men see seperated and divorced as being the same thing? There is nothing of my (ex)husband in my home. Not even a toothbrush or bath towel.