Pregnant by Married Man

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2004
Pregnant by Married Man
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Wed, 12-15-2004 - 10:18am
Im almost 4 months in my pregnancy and in my 2 month I found out the man that Im pregnat by is married. Im very dissapointed at him I never thought a man in his right state of mind can do such a thing. I also found out that he also just had his first child , but when he told me my baby was his first. His child is almost 4 months too. When I spoke to his wife she asked me questions and I answered them honestly to make sure this man was caught in his deception. I cant believe that a man in the rank that he has in the Marine Corp can risk his whole reputation on lying on his wife and newborn child. So Im confused and convinced that he was not the man I thought I met and spoke to on the phone. Im regret him but dont regret my baby. He blessed me and now Im complete.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-15-2004 - 7:42pm
It doesn't matter what he does for a living, people are people...what matters is that THIS baby, too, is getting dad's financial help. Get child support taken care of ASAP so that he can help you pay for this pregnancy, preschool, child care and college.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 12-15-2004 - 11:30pm

I totally agree, ensure that you get the financial help from this guy.

I'm glad to hear that you are being so positive about the situation. It must have been heartbreaking to find out the truth about the father, but it's better to find out now. It's good that you did speak to his wife and tell her so she can make the choice if she's going to stay with the man.

I wish you all the best!

Alison

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