Is this a problem

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2005
Is this a problem
2
Tue, 02-21-2006 - 4:48pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. For a year and a half we were living together. While living together we were inseperatable. We did almost everything together. There was not a day that went by that we were not together. I have recently moved because we wanted to relocate. I decided to move first because I got a job first and we could respectively stay with family but we would not be together. Since the move we spend all of our time on the phone with each other. We are about 3 hrs apart but because of scheldues we do not physically see each other often. We are often on the phone for hours at a time. I was wondering if this can be unhealthy. We are always under each other. Should I be concerned? Thansk
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 02-22-2006 - 7:11am
Obviously you're concerned about it, but why? What's bothering you about it?

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Registered: 09-29-2005
Wed, 02-22-2006 - 10:37am
What is bothering me about it is that I don't want to lose myself in the relationship nor do I want him to. Also, I don't want to have him or the relationship keep me from accomplishing my goals.