problem...not sure what to do
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problem...not sure what to do
| Wed, 05-24-2006 - 9:33pm |
I slept with a guy that I work with after a work function (alcohol was involved)...he asked me for my number and we talked a couple of times and we were also emailing each other all day yesterday, I was the last one to email and then he never replied! On top of that he is leaving on a business trip tomorrow for over a week...I don't know what to do, should I email him (not knowing if he will get it before he leaves or not) saying "have a great trip, maybe when you get back we can go for a drink or something" or just wait and see if he emails me when he's back?
We were still in the getting to know each other phase...granted we jumped a head a bit by sleeping together...but he seemed genuinely interested and now I'm not so sure and don't know what to do..any advice appreciated.
We were still in the getting to know each other phase...granted we jumped a head a bit by sleeping together...but he seemed genuinely interested and now I'm not so sure and don't know what to do..any advice appreciated.

There are a few problems here. One, you work together, two you had sex before you started to date.
He might be having second thoughts about a relationship with you...or not. Most people access their email on a business trip so there is no need to act like he won't be getting his email.
Hang back a bit and see what he does. Having a relationship with someone at work is fraught with big big problems. If he doesn't ask you out on a proper date it might be best to move on.
I hate to say this, but just because this guy is interested in sex with you does not mean he wants anything more than that.