problem...not sure what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2006
problem...not sure what to do
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 9:33pm
I slept with a guy that I work with after a work function (alcohol was involved)...he asked me for my number and we talked a couple of times and we were also emailing each other all day yesterday, I was the last one to email and then he never replied! On top of that he is leaving on a business trip tomorrow for over a week...I don't know what to do, should I email him (not knowing if he will get it before he leaves or not) saying "have a great trip, maybe when you get back we can go for a drink or something" or just wait and see if he emails me when he's back?
We were still in the getting to know each other phase...granted we jumped a head a bit by sleeping together...but he seemed genuinely interested and now I'm not so sure and don't know what to do..any advice appreciated.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:31am

There are a few problems here. One, you work together, two you had sex before you started to date.

He might be having second thoughts about a relationship with you...or not. Most people access their email on a business trip so there is no need to act like he won't be getting his email.

Hang back a bit and see what he does. Having a relationship with someone at work is fraught with big big problems. If he doesn't ask you out on a proper date it might be best to move on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 11:22am

I hate to say this, but just because this guy is interested in sex with you does not mean he wants anything more than that.