A propos Cave Men

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A propos Cave Men
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Mon, 03-22-2004 - 3:41am
I was reading with interest another post about men who disappear after a consistent number of dates,maybe out of panic or not knowing what they really want.

I'm in a similar situation where my guy who is 35 'vanished' after a month of regular dating: no calls (I know he hates the phone), texts or mails whereas before we were in contact everyday.Then a week from the last date I received a mail with just "hello.how are you?".I still haven't replied to this e-mail.Same day I even came across him in a club where I was with my friends.He had this boyish grin on his face and all I could do when he said 'hi' was frown and walk away.

How should one deal with such boyish behaviour?I have this urge to give him a good dose of his medicine by ignoring him for good.I definitely deserve much more respect.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
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Mon, 03-22-2004 - 6:29am
I don't think he needs to be in contact every day. You have no info on why he didn't call this week so i wouldn't condemn him yet - simply reply - "Fine - how are you?" Are you two exclusive? If not he may just be busy with his life and/or dating others.