Psycho ex g/f
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Psycho ex g/f
| Sat, 04-14-2007 - 4:52pm |
So my guy had continued to be friends with his ex after she cheated on him etc... then I came on the scene and she flipped out. I showed up to an event to see him and as soon as I was out of earshot from him she followed my friend and I on our way out and proceeded to have a complete breakdown, crying and sobbing that she's still in love with him and that she has to have him in her life so we're going to have to be friends and not to believe what he's told me about her being a psycho (which he didn't, figured that one out on my own thanks!) so I pretty much kept my trap shut and did not respond to her. He called later on and wanted to know what she said so I told him most of it, and also that the whole thing made me very uncomfortable. So he told her to leave him alone, no more calls, just to leave him in peace. Well needless to say she has continued to call and text him almost daily, to which he responds to leave him alone. She tends to do it when I am around, i'm sure just to make me mad. So today we were on the beach and she happened to be there, we avoided her as much as possible but of course she followed us and started talking to me, to which I said I had no problem with her but I had nothing to say to her... at which point she started yelling at my guy on and on and wouldn't leave us alone until we left. I am trying not to let it get to me and he is really nice but it is getting to me. I don't know what to do, I don't want to start anything with her and I don't want her to mess with my car (she know's where I work) or anything... I am nervous and don't know what to do. I don't want to break things off with him, but I don't know how much more I can handle. What can I do?
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| Sun, 04-15-2007 - 12:07am |
I have not been in your shoes, but if it were me, I would express to my boyfriend that if he doesn't take care of this problem, then I couldn't date him. Even if you think he's the greatest guy in the world, no guy is worth getting hurt over physically. He needs to get a restraining order for her to stay away from the two ofyou. But if he can't get one, maybe he can have a lawyer talk to her or her lawyer and express that this behavior needs to stop.
| Sun, 04-15-2007 - 12:35am |
One thing that might help is instead of him responding to leave him alone, try not responding at all - ignore her. Just an idea! Good luck.
